Value for Wednesday of Week 26 in the season of Ripening

Serving

Living in service to others reflects a high state of ethical attainment.

  • Every minute of every hour of every day you are making the world, just as you are making yourself, and you might as well do it with generosity and kindness and style. [Rebecca Solnit]
  • True generosity is an offering; given freely and out of pure love. No strings attached. No expectations. Time and love are the most valuable possession you can share. [Suze Orman]
  • In the sphere of material things giving means being rich. Not he who has much but he who gives much. [Erich Fromm]
  • The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. [attributed to Mahatma Gandhi]
  • I wish to be useful, and every kind of service necessary to the public good becomes honorable by being necessary. [Nathan Hale]

You may be tempted to think of service along the lines of a maid or butler, or a food server in a restaurant. If so, you may be put off by the economic inequality that often accompanies and gives rise to such work. But for some people, service to others is a constant and joyful act and not subservient at all. The Kennedy family comes to mind in its ethic of political service to country. The family matriarch, Rose Kennedy, often expressed that view. There are many other examples, some of which are highlighted in the narratives on this page.

Real

True Narratives

Narratives on military and other public service:

Technical and Analytical Readings

Photographs

Documentary and Educational Films

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

Novels:

Poetry

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Although Giacomo Puccini’s opera La Bohème (The Bohemians) (1895) (approx. 99-112’) (libretto) (list of recorded performances) is superficially about romantic love and tragedy, the young seamstress-protagonist Mimì displays moving generosity toward her friends, though she is gravely ill. Rodolfo, who falls in love with her, “cannot provide for her”. Thus, the theme wraps back to powerlessness amid the will to serve. Recorded performances with video feature Freni & Raimondi (Karajan) in 1965; Freni & Pavarotti (Oren); Gheorghiu & Alagna (López-Cobos); and Netrebko & Villazón (de Billy). Top audio-recorded performances are by: de los Angeles & Björling (Beecham) in 1956 ***; Freni & Gedda (Schippers) in 1962; Freni & Pavarotti (Karajan) in 1973; Ricciarelli & Carreras (Colin Davis) in 1979; and Vaduva & Alagna (Pappano) in 1996. 

In Giuseppe Verdi’s La Traviata (The Fallen Woman) (1853) (approx. 124-151’) (libretto) (list of recorded performances), Violetta sacrifices her own happiness for the sake of others. The opera “. . . tells the story of the tragic love between the courtesan Violetta and the romantic Alfredo Germont. Played out against the hypocrisy of upper-class fashionable society, Alfredo and Violetta’s love threatens to shame his family. When his father directly appeals to Violetta to relinquish her one chance of happiness, Violetta submits and her act of self-sacrifice leads to her paying the ultimate price.” Verdi drew the story from Alexandre Dumas’ novel La Dame aux camélias (The Lady of the Camellias) (1852). Video-recorded performances feature Moffo & Bonisolli (Patanè) in 1968; Freni & Bonisolli (Gardelli) in 1973, part 1, part 2, part 3; Fleming, Burson & Villazón (Carlos Kleiber); and Fleming & Villazón (Conlon) in 2006. Top audio-recorded performances are by Ponselle & Jagel (Panizza) in 1935; Sayão, Kullman & Warren (Sodero) in 1943; Albanese & Peerce (Toscanini) in 1946; Steber & di Stefano (Antonicelli) in 1949; Callas & di Stefano (Giulini) in 1955; Callas & Kraus (Ghione) in 1958; Callas & Valletti (Rescigno) in 1958 ***; Moffo & Tucker (Previtali) in 1960; Lorengar & Aragall (Maazel) in 1968; Masterson & Brecknock (Mackerras) in 1980; and Sutherland & Pavarotti (Bonynge) in 1980. 

Other compositions:

Artists who have exhibited generous service in their lives include:

Music: songs and other short pieces

Visual Arts

Film and Stage

This Is Our Story

A religion of values and Ethics, driven by love and compassion, informed by science and reason.

PART ONE: OUR STORY

First ingredient: Distinctions. What is the core and essence of being human? What is contentment, or kindliness, or Love? What is gentleness, or service, or enthusiasm, or courage? If you follow the links, you see at a glance what these concepts mean.

PART TWO: ANALYSIS

This site would be incomplete without an analytical framework. After you have digested a few of the examples, feel free to explore the ideas behind the model. I would be remiss if I did not give credit to my inspiration for this work: the Human Faith Project of Calvin Chatlos, M.D. His demonstration of a model for Human Faith began my exploration of this subject matter.

A RELIGION OF VALUES

A baby first begins to learn about the world by experiencing it. A room may be warm or cool. The baby learns that distinction. As a toddler, the child may strike her head with a rag doll, and see that it is soft; then strike her head with a wooden block, and see that it is hard. Love is a distinction: she loves me, or she doesn’t love me. This is true of every human value:

justice, humility, wisdom, courage . . . every single one of them.

This site is dedicated to exploring those distinctions. It is based on a model of values that you can read about on the “About” page. However, the best way to learn about what is in here is the same as the baby’s way of learning about the world: open the pages, and see what happens.

ants organic action machines

Octavio Ocampo, Forever Always

Jacek Yerka, House over the Waterfall

Norman Rockwell, Carefree Days Ahead

WHAT YOU WILL SEE HERE

When you open tiostest.wpengine.com, you will see a human value identified at the top of the page. The value changes daily. These values are designed to follow the seasons of the year.

You will also see an overview of the value, or subject for the day, and then two columns of materials.

The left-side column presents true narratives, which include biographies, memoirs, histories, documentary films and the like; and also technical and analytical writings.

The right-side columns presents the work of the human imagination: fictional novels and stories, music, visual art, poetry and fictional film.

Each entry is presented to help identify the value. Open some of the links and experience our human story, again. It belongs to us all, and each of us is a part of it.

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