Value for Wednesday of Week 35 in the season of Interlude

Resting and Relaxing


Inactivity must balance activity.

  • Refresh and renew yourself, your body, your mind, your spirit. Then get back to work. [Ralph Marston]
  • Your mind will answer most questions if you learn to relax and wait for the answer. [William S. Burroughs]
  • Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass under trees on a summer’s day, listening to the murmur of the water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is by no means a waste of time. [attributed to John Lubbock]

Resting is the active component of restoration. It refers to allowing the body and mind to be inactive. “Rest is not accomplished by simply taking time off and then going back to your busy schedule. Rest occurs when you allow yourself to be fully inactive.” “Rest is the only way to engage the part of our nervous system that allows for relaxation.” 

Everyone needs rest, especially those who are the most active of us. “In a world that glorifies hustle and celebrates constant activity, it’s easy to overlook the significance of rest and recovery for our mental health and overall well-being. . . . our bodies and minds are not designed to function like machines that run non-stop.

Resting is multi-faceted:

When we rest, our brain is busy consolidating memories and quietly searching for solutions to problems we encounter.” Among the benefits of resting are:

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

Poetry

O soft embalmer of the still midnight,

      Shutting, with careful fingers and benign,

Our gloom-pleas'd eyes, embower'd from the light,

      Enshaded in forgetfulness divine:

O soothest Sleep! if so it please thee, close

      In midst of this thine hymn my willing eyes,

Or wait the "Amen," ere thy poppy throws

      Around my bed its lulling charities.

Then save me, or the passed day will shine

Upon my pillow, breeding many woes,—

      Save me from curious Conscience, that still lords

Its strength for darkness, burrowing like a mole;

      Turn the key deftly in the oiled wards,

And seal the hushed Casket of my Soul.

[John Keats, “To Sleep”]

If sleep is truce, as it is sometimes said, a pure time for the mind to rest and heal, why, when they suddenly wake you, do you feel that they have stolen everything you had? Why is it so sad to be awake at dawn? It strips us of a gift so strange, so deep, it can be remembered only in half-sleep, moments of drowsiness that gild and adorn. The waking mind with dreams, which may well be but broken images of the night’s treasure, a timeless world that has no name or measure and breaks up in the mirrors of the day. Who will you be tonight, in the dark thrall of sleep, when you have slipped across its wall?

[Jorge Luis Borges, “Sleep”]

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Hawaii is a great place to vacation, and to live. Its music reflects calm ocean waves on a sandy beach. Its musical specialty is the slack key guitar. “Slack-key guitar developed in the Hawaiian Islands during the nineteenth century sometime after the introduction of guitars by European sailors and Latin American cattlemen. As guitars found their way into the hands of Hawaiians unaware of established European tunings and playing styles, they integrated the acoustic instrument into their already rich musical tradition.” “For a few generations (late 1800s through mid 1900s) much of Hawaiian traditions were ‘frowned upon’ by the emerging ‘ruling class’ of foreigners. . . It was so personal that a father might come off the ranch, grab his guitar, sit on his lanai (porch) and play Kī Hō’alu for himself, to relax, soothe his nerves, and express his love for his environment . . .” “Many Hawaiian songs and slack key guitar pieces reflect themes like stories of the past and present and people’s lives. But it is the tropical surroundings of Hawai’i, with its oceans, volcanoes and mountains, waterfalls, forests, plants and animals, that provide the deepest source of inspiration for Hawaiian music.” People who listen to slack key guitar playing “feel like they have been transported to the islands, being able to relax . . .” Among the great slack key artists are:

Aaron Larget-Caplan, New Lullaby Project has been described as "attentive peacefulness":

Albums:

Compositions:

Music: songs and other short pieces

Visual Arts

Film and Stage

This Is Our Story

A religion of values and Ethics, driven by love and compassion, informed by science and reason.

PART ONE: OUR STORY

First ingredient: Distinctions. What is the core and essence of being human? What is contentment, or kindliness, or Love? What is gentleness, or service, or enthusiasm, or courage? If you follow the links, you see at a glance what these concepts mean.

PART TWO: ANALYSIS

This site would be incomplete without an analytical framework. After you have digested a few of the examples, feel free to explore the ideas behind the model. I would be remiss if I did not give credit to my inspiration for this work: the Human Faith Project of Calvin Chatlos, M.D. His demonstration of a model for Human Faith began my exploration of this subject matter.

A RELIGION OF VALUES

A baby first begins to learn about the world by experiencing it. A room may be warm or cool. The baby learns that distinction. As a toddler, the child may strike her head with a rag doll, and see that it is soft; then strike her head with a wooden block, and see that it is hard. Love is a distinction: she loves me, or she doesn’t love me. This is true of every human value:

justice, humility, wisdom, courage . . . every single one of them.

This site is dedicated to exploring those distinctions. It is based on a model of values that you can read about on the “About” page. However, the best way to learn about what is in here is the same as the baby’s way of learning about the world: open the pages, and see what happens.

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Octavio Ocampo, Forever Always

Jacek Yerka, House over the Waterfall

Norman Rockwell, Carefree Days Ahead

WHAT YOU WILL SEE HERE

When you open tiostest.wpengine.com, you will see a human value identified at the top of the page. The value changes daily. These values are designed to follow the seasons of the year.

You will also see an overview of the value, or subject for the day, and then two columns of materials.

The left-side column presents true narratives, which include biographies, memoirs, histories, documentary films and the like; and also technical and analytical writings.

The right-side columns presents the work of the human imagination: fictional novels and stories, music, visual art, poetry and fictional film.

Each entry is presented to help identify the value. Open some of the links and experience our human story, again. It belongs to us all, and each of us is a part of it.

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