Value for Monday of Week 23 in the season of Growth

Mutuality – Reciprocity – Cooperation

Low-level interpersonal relationships are essentially transactional.

  • Without the sense of collaborating with like-minded beings in the pursuit of the ever unattainable in art and scientific research, my life would have been empty. [Albert Einstein]
  • To make peace with an enemy, one must work with that enemy, and that enemy becomes one’s partner. [Nelson Mandela]
  • . . .  Communism forgets that life is individual. Capitalism forgets that life is social, and the Kingdom of Brotherhood is found neither in the thesis of Communism nor the antithesis of capitalism but in a higher synthesis. [Martin Luther King, Jr.]

Mere reciprocity, or cooperation, does not imply any good feeling toward others. People who do not otherwise get along can cooperate to achieve a common end or purpose.

Early experiments in game theory, particularly in the prisoner’s dilemma, revealed that repeated interactions between members of a community, of as few as two people, were essential in establishing the mechanical foundations of cooperation. Homo sapiens would not have become a social species but for the advantages of repeated interactions within community. These dynamics are solely transactional.

Like tolerance, reciprocity is a good starting point toward high-level ethics and spirituality. Reciprocity appears to be “a basic psychological mechanism” that is rooted in evolution. It is present as one element in romantic relationships: “A person can reap psychological benefits when sharing their accomplishments or capitalizing with a partner. These benefits often depend on whether a partner responds with enthusiasm . . .” “the concept of reciprocity is a useful analytical tool that enhances understanding of midwife–woman relationships and the emotion work that these may generate.” Simple though it may seem, reciprocity is a somewhat amorphous concept, with many definitions, and “four dimensions of transfers: Balanced (e.g., Balanced reciprocity), Reputation-based (e.g., Generalized reciprocity), Debt-based (e.g., Calculated reciprocity), and Unconditional (e.g., Negative reciprocity).

Cooperation is a more popular and more widely studied phenomenon. “Cooperation is vital for the survival of many species . . .” “Early research was focused on altruism in the social insects, where the problem of cooperation was easy to see. In more recent years, research into cooperation has expanded across the entire tree of life, and has been revolutionised by advances in genetic, microbiological, and analytical techniques.” Like reciprocity, cooperation is essentially mechanistic. It appears to have played an important role in primate sociality. It is of benefit in innovation activities, and in many other ways.

These observations lay bare a deficiency in the Golden Rule, as stated. Merely looking within self to decide how others wish to be treated can turn the Golden Rule into an instrument of control and injury. Spirituality transcends mere reciprocity.

Real

True Narratives

Richard Aldous, Reagan and Thatcher: The Difficult Relationship (W.W. Norton & Company, 2012). “A look at the relationship between the prime minister and the president.

From the dark side:

Technical and Analytical Readings

In the 1940s, a new discipline called game theory emerged within the social sciences. This discipline, which has advanced rapidly in the decades since its inception, studies the character of interactions between human beings and other organisms in dynamic environments in the context of competition and limited resources. I place this essential discipline under this heading not to suggest that mutuality and cooperation are in any sense inevitable, or even likely in general terms, but only to point out that game theory tells us how we can structure interactions to promote cooperative behaviors that lead to socially desirable outcomes. This grouping reflects a desideratum, not a scientific principle. Of necessity, the game theory is the study of conflict as well as the potential paths toward sustainable outcomes such as often arise from cooperation.

Game theory’s main foundation is the evolutionary principle, because the emergence of new behaviors under varied circumstances is what game theory is centrally about. We will get to cooperation as an element of spirituality later. For now, an understanding of the practical dynamics that ease the path to that development is our focus. This topic belongs in the pantheon of ethical considerations, because it explores the nuts-and-bolts dynamics of ethics and its antagonists.

Here are some leading works on using game theory to produce fair and just outcomes:

The roots of cooperation among humans are biological/genetic, and so are the roots of selfishness. In A Natural History of Human Morality, Michael Tomasello fleshes out the two-edged nature of human ethical inclinations. The belief that humans are hard-wired to treat each other decently has some basis in fact but so does the belief that we are hard-wired for self-interest. In an earlier work, A Natural History of Human Thinking, Tomasello argues that our unique ways of thinking are grounded in the fact that “humans participate in shared intentionality in a way that their nearest primate relatives do not”.

From the dark side: deceit: Deceit is antithetical to cooperation. A form of dishonesty, it is as hard-wired into us, and other species, as is cooperation.

Photographs

Documentary and Educational Films

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

Novels:

Poetry

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Ludwig van Beethoven, String Quartets, Op. 18 (6) (1801) (approx. 140-170’) (list of recorded performances): in his first set of string quartets, Beethoven uses the four instrumental voices to highlight the rich textural palette of the string quartet. As a start, a cooperative effort among the players is necessary to achieve a good effect. Top recorded performances are by Budapest String Quartet in 1952; Quartetto Italiano in 1972; The Lindsays in 1979 (Nos. 1-2; Nos. 3-4; Nos. 5-6); Takács Quartet in 2004; Quatuor Mosaïques in 2005 (Nos. 1 & 4; Nos. 2 & 3; Nos. 5 & 6); and Dover Quartet in 2020. Individually, the quartets are:

Conductor Ferenc Fricsay was known for his collaboration and partnership with the orchestra. Here are links to his playlists, and to videos of him conducting.

English piano duets:

Miles Davis and John Coltrane made an iconic jazz pair, though each was a premier soloist and leader. Live recordings include those at Olympia Theatre, Paris, March 21, 1960 (86’); at Tivoli Konserthal, Copenhagen, March 24, 1960 (44’); at Kongresshaus, Zürich, April 8, 1960 (59’); and at Kurhaus, Sheveningen, April 9, 1960 (46’). Their recorded releases include:

Other works:

Albums:

Sometimes people acting together for a common cause can try to outdo each other in performance. So it was with these artists whose competitive spirit led to a creative tension that enhanced the music.

Music: songs and other short pieces

Visual Arts

Film and Stage

This Is Our Story

A religion of values and Ethics, driven by love and compassion, informed by science and reason.

PART ONE: OUR STORY

First ingredient: Distinctions. What is the core and essence of being human? What is contentment, or kindliness, or Love? What is gentleness, or service, or enthusiasm, or courage? If you follow the links, you see at a glance what these concepts mean.

PART TWO: ANALYSIS

This site would be incomplete without an analytical framework. After you have digested a few of the examples, feel free to explore the ideas behind the model. I would be remiss if I did not give credit to my inspiration for this work: the Human Faith Project of Calvin Chatlos, M.D. His demonstration of a model for Human Faith began my exploration of this subject matter.

A RELIGION OF VALUES

A baby first begins to learn about the world by experiencing it. A room may be warm or cool. The baby learns that distinction. As a toddler, the child may strike her head with a rag doll, and see that it is soft; then strike her head with a wooden block, and see that it is hard. Love is a distinction: she loves me, or she doesn’t love me. This is true of every human value:

justice, humility, wisdom, courage . . . every single one of them.

This site is dedicated to exploring those distinctions. It is based on a model of values that you can read about on the “About” page. However, the best way to learn about what is in here is the same as the baby’s way of learning about the world: open the pages, and see what happens.

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Octavio Ocampo, Forever Always

Jacek Yerka, House over the Waterfall

Norman Rockwell, Carefree Days Ahead

WHAT YOU WILL SEE HERE

When you open tiostest.wpengine.com, you will see a human value identified at the top of the page. The value changes daily. These values are designed to follow the seasons of the year.

You will also see an overview of the value, or subject for the day, and then two columns of materials.

The left-side column presents true narratives, which include biographies, memoirs, histories, documentary films and the like; and also technical and analytical writings.

The right-side columns presents the work of the human imagination: fictional novels and stories, music, visual art, poetry and fictional film.

Each entry is presented to help identify the value. Open some of the links and experience our human story, again. It belongs to us all, and each of us is a part of it.

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