Value for Thursday of Week 34 in the season of Interlude

Persevering – Being Tenacious

Because we do not always succeed, persevering is an important value; it can be the only path to success.

  • Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.  [Thomas A. Edison]
  • It is common sense to take a method and try it. If it fails, admit it frankly and try another. But above all, try something. [Franklin D. Roosevelt]
  • Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better. [Samuel Beckett]
  • You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don’t try to forget the mistakes, but you don’t dwell on it. You don’t let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space. [attributed to Johnny Cash]

Perseverance refers to our ability to pursue a goal or passion over time, and stick with it if we encounter obstacles or setbacks. . . . It is closely related to a range of other concepts including resilience, motivation, drive, determination, grit, passion, and conscientiousness.

Perseverance yields several mental health benefits.

“. . . boosting patients’ optimism and resilience via perseverance in goalstriving despite obstacles will inevitably generate positive mood states and a sense of purpose. Doing so curtails the negative selfperpetuating effect of worry, panic, and depression symptoms.

Real

True Narratives

I had a battle royal with Helen this morning. Although I try very hard not to force issues, I find it very difficult to avoid them. Helen's table manners are appalling. She puts her hands in our plates and helps herself, and when the dishes are passed, she grabs them and takes out whatever she wants. This morning I would not let her put her hand in my plate. She persisted, and a contest of wills followed. Naturally the family was much disturbed, and left the room. I locked the dining-room door, and proceeded to eat my breakfast, though the food almost choked me. Helen was lying on the floor, kicking and screaming and trying to pull my chair from under me. She kept this up for half an hour, then she got up to see what I was doing. I let her see that I was eating, but did not let her put her hand in the plate. She pinched me, and I slapped her every time she did it. Then she went all round the table to see who was there, and finding no one but me, she seemed bewildered. After a few minutes she came back to her place and began to eat her breakfast with her fingers. I gave her a spoon, which she threw on the floor. I forced her out of the chair and made her pick it up. Finally I succeeded in getting her back in her chair again, and held the spoon in her hand, compelling her to take up the food with it and put it in her mouth. In a few minutes she yielded and finished her breakfast peaceably. Then we had another tussle over folding her napkin. When she had finished, she threw it on the floor and ran toward the door. Finding it locked, she began to kick and scream all over again. It was another hour before I succeeded in getting her napkin folded. Then I let her out in the warm sunshine and went up to my room and threw myself on the bed exhausted. I had a good cry and felt better. I suppose I shall have many such battles with the little woman before she learns the only two essential things I can teach her, obedience and love. [Annie Sullivan, Letters, March 6, 1887.]

Abraham Lincoln struggled with depression, and lost most of his political races. He also struggled mightily with attitudes toward race, including perhaps his own. Today, historians recognize him as perhaps our greatest president.

Readers with the perseverance to explore Lincoln biographies in depth may wish to consult Michael Burkhimer, 100 Essential Lincoln Books (Cumberland House, 2003).

You can also read his entire known writings.

Another exceptionally tenacious public figure was Mohandas Gandhi. Ramachandra Guha portrays this is his two-volume biography:

Other true narratives in which perseverance is a main theme:

Technical and Analytical Readings

Photographs

Documentary and Educational Films

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

Novels:

Poetry

That even as we grieved, we grew.

That even as we hurt, we hoped.

That even as we tired, we tried.

[from Amanda Gorman, “The Hill We Climb”]

Well, son, I'll tell you: / Life for me ain't been no crystal stair.
It's had tacks in it, / And splinters, / And boards torn up, / And places with no carpet on the floor— / Bare.
But all the time / I'se been a-climbin' on, / And reachin' landin's, / And turnin' corners, / And sometimes goin' in the dark / Where there ain't been no light.
So, boy, don't you turn back. / Don't you set down on the steps. / 'Cause you finds it's kinder hard.
Don't you fall now— / For I'se still goin', honey, / I'se still climbin', / And life for me ain't been no crystal stair.

[Langston Hughes, “Mother to Son”]

Other poems:

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Though Edward Elgar expressed a disdain for “programme music,” he wrote this of his Symphony No. 1 in A flat major, Op. 55 (1908) (approx. 47-54’) (list of recorded performances): “There is no program beyond a wide experience of human life with a great charity (love) and a massive hope in the future.” In his notes for recordings of the work, Michael Kennedy writes: “All this is expressed by the purely musical metamorphoses of this tune.” This active metamorphosis does not seem likely in the first three movements but is achieved through perseverance. “. . . Elgar came from a large family of modest means. As a piano tuner and organist, Elgar’s father could provide his son with basic exposure to music, but there was no money for formal training. Recognition came slowly for Elgar, and the sustained effort it took to write a full-fledged, uncommissioned symphony was not possible for a composer piecing together a living through freelancing and teaching.” “(He) would not complete his First Symphony until he was 51, after first attempting this most prestigious of musical genres ten years earlier. Elgar in 1930, Boult in 1949, Barbirolli in 1956, Barbirolli in 1963, Boult in 1976, Colin Davis in 2002 (the movements are linked individually in the discussion section, below), Hickox in 2007, Andrew Davis in 2010, Vasily Petrenko in 2014, Barenboim in 2015, and Gardner in 2016, conducted top recorded performances.

Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky, Piano Concerto No. 1 in B-flat Minor, Op. 23 (1875) (approx. 32-40’) (list of recorded performances): “In November 1874, Tchaikovsky wrote to his brother Anatoly, 'I am now immersed in the composition of a Piano concerto. I definitely want Rubinstein to play it at his concert; it’s going with much difficulty . . .'” Nikolay Rubinstein was a renowned pianist but he deemed the concerto to be unplayable and worthless. Tchaikovsky then turned to another great pianist. “Bülow loved it, and declared that the concerto 'displays such brilliance, and is such a remarkable achievement among your musical works, that you have without doubt enriched the world of music as never before.'” Eventually, Rubinstein too came around. Tchaikovsky constructed this concerto on Ukranian folk tunes but the sense of the work, as well as its backstory, is of perseverance and persistence. Top recorded performances on disc are by Horowitz (Barbirolli) in 1940, van Cliburn (Kondrashin) in 1958, van Cliburn (Kondrashin) in 1958, Richter (Karajan) in 1962, Ashkenazy (Maazel) in 1963, Friere (Masur) 1969, Argerich (Dutoit) in 1971, Argerich (Abbado) in 1995, Trifonov (Gergiev) in 2012, Rana (Pappano) in 2016.

Ernest Chausson, Symphony in B-flat Major, Op. 20 (1889) (approx. 30-36’) (list of recorded performances) evokes alternating struggle and triumph, which is also what Chausson experienced composing it. He wrote to a friend: “I had a lucky beginning and now I find myself afloat without being able to continue. unwilling to give up, a prey of frenzy. I play over incessantly what I have written, always hoping that a good inspiration will enable me to get by the fatal measure, and it is always the same thing, and I begin again and slop once more. Imagine. I just stopped a moment ago. It was the twentieth time today. It is like that every day. It will be like that tomorrow. I no longer dare to get up in the morning, thinking of the frightful day I am going to spend.

Marcel Dupré, organ works:

Other compositions:

Albums – not all blues – on a standard blues theme: press on despite your problems:

Other albums:

Music: songs and other short pieces

Visual Arts

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Film and Stage

 

This Is Our Story

A religion of values and Ethics, driven by love and compassion, informed by science and reason.

PART ONE: OUR STORY

First ingredient: Distinctions. What is the core and essence of being human? What is contentment, or kindliness, or Love? What is gentleness, or service, or enthusiasm, or courage? If you follow the links, you see at a glance what these concepts mean.

PART TWO: ANALYSIS

This site would be incomplete without an analytical framework. After you have digested a few of the examples, feel free to explore the ideas behind the model. I would be remiss if I did not give credit to my inspiration for this work: the Human Faith Project of Calvin Chatlos, M.D. His demonstration of a model for Human Faith began my exploration of this subject matter.

A RELIGION OF VALUES

A baby first begins to learn about the world by experiencing it. A room may be warm or cool. The baby learns that distinction. As a toddler, the child may strike her head with a rag doll, and see that it is soft; then strike her head with a wooden block, and see that it is hard. Love is a distinction: she loves me, or she doesn’t love me. This is true of every human value:

justice, humility, wisdom, courage . . . every single one of them.

This site is dedicated to exploring those distinctions. It is based on a model of values that you can read about on the “About” page. However, the best way to learn about what is in here is the same as the baby’s way of learning about the world: open the pages, and see what happens.

ants organic action machines

Octavio Ocampo, Forever Always

Jacek Yerka, House over the Waterfall

Norman Rockwell, Carefree Days Ahead

WHAT YOU WILL SEE HERE

When you open tiostest.wpengine.com, you will see a human value identified at the top of the page. The value changes daily. These values are designed to follow the seasons of the year.

You will also see an overview of the value, or subject for the day, and then two columns of materials.

The left-side column presents true narratives, which include biographies, memoirs, histories, documentary films and the like; and also technical and analytical writings.

The right-side columns presents the work of the human imagination: fictional novels and stories, music, visual art, poetry and fictional film.

Each entry is presented to help identify the value. Open some of the links and experience our human story, again. It belongs to us all, and each of us is a part of it.

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