Value for Tuesday of Week 42 in the season of Assessing

Appreciating Humor

Humor is a relief, a release from what is trapped within. Good humor frees us to Be more fully – to confront life’s harsh realities by stepping away from them for awhile.

People need to laugh. Humor is an antidote to an often cruel world. It can alleviate suffering of disaster victims, cancer patients, burn victims, HIV patients, victims of traumatic brain injury, patients undergoing palliative care, bipolar patients, family members of persons suffering from dementia, victims of intimate partner violence, and parents with unwell children. Great care is advisable in all of these situations: humor can easily be perceived as insensitivity. 

Humor can be useful as a coping strategy. It facilitates maintaining a sense of self. It can help people age well, and gracefully. It can heal us, even in times of bereavement. In medicine generally: “Humor can soften the isolation experienced by both patients and staff. When used sensitively, respecting the gravity of the situation, humor can build the connection among the caregiver, patient, and family.

Eight humor styles have been identified: “. . . fun, humor, nonsense, wit, irony, satire, sarcasm, and cynicism . . .” A “systematic review and meta-analysis suggests that (1) ‘simulated’ (non-humorous) laughter is more effective than ‘spontaneous’ (humorous) laughter, and (2) laughter-inducing therapies can improve depression.” Perhaps the researchers were good at telling jokes.

Humor is a component of wisdom. “. . . the special appeal of humor lies in its unalloyed pleasure.

Real

True Narratives

General histories:

Histories of the comic arts:

Personal histories:

Technical and Analytical Readings

General readings:

Instruction manuals:

Photographs

Documentary and Educational Films

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

Here are a few children’s humorous books, reviewed.

Novels and stories:

Poetry

Books of poems:

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Several artists have thrived at the intersection of music and humor:

Compositions:

Albums:

Music: songs and other short pieces

Visual Arts

Film and Stage

Laurel and Hardy:

The Marx Brothers:

Peter Sellers and the Pink Panther series:

A list of the 100 funniest comedies according to the American Film Institute

This Is Our Story

A religion of values and Ethics, driven by love and compassion, informed by science and reason.

PART ONE: OUR STORY

First ingredient: Distinctions. What is the core and essence of being human? What is contentment, or kindliness, or Love? What is gentleness, or service, or enthusiasm, or courage? If you follow the links, you see at a glance what these concepts mean.

PART TWO: ANALYSIS

This site would be incomplete without an analytical framework. After you have digested a few of the examples, feel free to explore the ideas behind the model. I would be remiss if I did not give credit to my inspiration for this work: the Human Faith Project of Calvin Chatlos, M.D. His demonstration of a model for Human Faith began my exploration of this subject matter.

A RELIGION OF VALUES

A baby first begins to learn about the world by experiencing it. A room may be warm or cool. The baby learns that distinction. As a toddler, the child may strike her head with a rag doll, and see that it is soft; then strike her head with a wooden block, and see that it is hard. Love is a distinction: she loves me, or she doesn’t love me. This is true of every human value:

justice, humility, wisdom, courage . . . every single one of them.

This site is dedicated to exploring those distinctions. It is based on a model of values that you can read about on the “About” page. However, the best way to learn about what is in here is the same as the baby’s way of learning about the world: open the pages, and see what happens.

ants organic action machines

Octavio Ocampo, Forever Always

Jacek Yerka, House over the Waterfall

Norman Rockwell, Carefree Days Ahead

WHAT YOU WILL SEE HERE

When you open tiostest.wpengine.com, you will see a human value identified at the top of the page. The value changes daily. These values are designed to follow the seasons of the year.

You will also see an overview of the value, or subject for the day, and then two columns of materials.

The left-side column presents true narratives, which include biographies, memoirs, histories, documentary films and the like; and also technical and analytical writings.

The right-side columns presents the work of the human imagination: fictional novels and stories, music, visual art, poetry and fictional film.

Each entry is presented to help identify the value. Open some of the links and experience our human story, again. It belongs to us all, and each of us is a part of it.

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