Value for Monday of Week 27 in the season of Ripening

Being Open-hearted

An open heart offers a pathway to the wishes and dreams of others.

  • Maybe people don’t understand my openness. In fact, if someone randomly comes and hugs me, I’d hug them right back. I am all for free hugs that make people happy. [attributed to Tejaswi Madivada]
  • We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us. [attributed to Joseph Campbell]
  • Be the kind of person who is a joy to be around. Caring for and loving others brings out the best in you and keeps your heart open to the unspoken and deeply buried needs of others. [attributed to Farshad Asl]

Probably you have heard the expression “open-hearted.” Standard dictionaries define it as frankness coupled with kindliness. The authoritative text Buddhism for Dummies identifies it with generosity, which is the global expression of kindness. Frequently, the quality is associated with children, who have not yet been conditioned to guard the free expression of their emotions. Ronald Aronson describes the emergence of his awareness of open-heartedness in describing his experience with open heart surgery, of all things.

To open the heart is to open the emotional core and let it express, so that the core reaches outward. Going far beyond mere willingness, the emotional hands stretch as far as they can to embrace others, life, and the world. In this metaphor, we can see the beginnings of spirituality.

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

Poetry

Poems:

  • Rabindranath Tagore, 57

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Carl Philipp Emanuel Bach, Württemberg Sonatas, “Six Keyboard Sonatas for Connoisseurs and Amateurs”, Wq. 49 (1742-1744) (approx. 85-90’) (list of recorded performances), cover a wide range of emotions, with an emotional depth that had not previously been the norm. “. . . the musical language of these sonatas is . . . completely different from that of the High Baroque which supposedly had another six or so years to flourish . . .” “. . . with their abrupt passions and horizontal drama (they) must have mystified his conservative father.” The music displays the “younger Bach's idiosyncrasies: the gentle playfulness of the music, the fondness for subtle and sudden tempo shifts, the extraordinary, rippling invention . . .” In a sense, these compositions opened the musical heart. An excellent performance on harpsichord is by Bob van Asperen in 1979. Excellent performances on piano are by Keith Jarrett in 1994, Mahan Esfahani in 2014, and Ana-Marija Markovina in 2014. 

Other music expressing open-heartedness:

Count Basie was an influential jazz musician and band leader of the Swing era. “As a young boy, Basie hated to see his parents working so hard, and vowed to help them get ahead. The family had a piano, and Basie’s mother paid 25¢ a lesson for his piano lessons at an early age.  He had an incredible ear, and could repeat any tune he heard.” His style was intuitive, “from the heart”. “Compared to the more complex, almost symphonic compositions and arrangements of some of the other leading bandleaders and composers of his time, most notably Duke Ellington and Fletcher Henderson, the Basie band’s arrangements were usually straightforward ‘head arrangements,’ based on a simple riff or melody (the ‘head’) made up and memorized by the band in rehearsal, and later played in performance as the background for soloists.” “Basie's orchestra was characterized by a light, swinging rhythm section that he led from the piano, lively ensemble work, and generous soloing. . . His instrument was his band, which was considered the epitome of swing and became broadly influential on jazz.” Books about Basie include his autobiography, and books by Ken Vail, and Joanne Mattern. His list of releases, spanning decades, is extensive. His live appearances include this from 1955 with Lionel Hampton and Sarah Vaughan; at Birdland, December 30, 1956; on CBS in 1957; live in Belgium in 1961; in 1962; in Copenhagen in 1972; from the Dorchester Hotel in 1973; with Oscar Peterson in 1974; in France in 1975; at Tivoli in 1976; in Tokyo in 1978; and at the North Sea Jazz Festival in 1979.

Albums:

Music: songs and other short pieces

Visual Arts

Film and Stage

This Is Our Story

A religion of values and Ethics, driven by love and compassion, informed by science and reason.

PART ONE: OUR STORY

First ingredient: Distinctions. What is the core and essence of being human? What is contentment, or kindliness, or Love? What is gentleness, or service, or enthusiasm, or courage? If you follow the links, you see at a glance what these concepts mean.

PART TWO: ANALYSIS

This site would be incomplete without an analytical framework. After you have digested a few of the examples, feel free to explore the ideas behind the model. I would be remiss if I did not give credit to my inspiration for this work: the Human Faith Project of Calvin Chatlos, M.D. His demonstration of a model for Human Faith began my exploration of this subject matter.

A RELIGION OF VALUES

A baby first begins to learn about the world by experiencing it. A room may be warm or cool. The baby learns that distinction. As a toddler, the child may strike her head with a rag doll, and see that it is soft; then strike her head with a wooden block, and see that it is hard. Love is a distinction: she loves me, or she doesn’t love me. This is true of every human value:

justice, humility, wisdom, courage . . . every single one of them.

This site is dedicated to exploring those distinctions. It is based on a model of values that you can read about on the “About” page. However, the best way to learn about what is in here is the same as the baby’s way of learning about the world: open the pages, and see what happens.

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Octavio Ocampo, Forever Always

Jacek Yerka, House over the Waterfall

Norman Rockwell, Carefree Days Ahead

WHAT YOU WILL SEE HERE

When you open tiostest.wpengine.com, you will see a human value identified at the top of the page. The value changes daily. These values are designed to follow the seasons of the year.

You will also see an overview of the value, or subject for the day, and then two columns of materials.

The left-side column presents true narratives, which include biographies, memoirs, histories, documentary films and the like; and also technical and analytical writings.

The right-side columns presents the work of the human imagination: fictional novels and stories, music, visual art, poetry and fictional film.

Each entry is presented to help identify the value. Open some of the links and experience our human story, again. It belongs to us all, and each of us is a part of it.

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