Value for Sunday of Week 22 in the season of Growth

Thinking, Feeling, Acting (opportunities and obstacles)

Every mental operation, in any of the three domains of being, is potentially an obstacle to growth, and an opportunity for it.

  • Justice is the first virtue of social institutions, as truth is of systems of thought. [John Rawls, A Theory of Justice (1971), Chapter I]
  • There’s no “should” or “should not” when it comes to having feelings. They’re part of who we are and their origins are beyond our control. When we can believe that, we may find it easier to make constructive choices about what to do with those feelings. [Fred Rogers]
  • There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long range risks of comfortable inaction. [John F. Kennedy]

Yesterday we celebrated the value of expanding our boundaries and extending our reach. This week, we will examine the impediments that many, perhaps all of us face in that undertaking. We perceive and evaluate the world through the tiny lens of our imperfect eyes and minds. Our thoughts enable us to evaluate the world but they also constrain us, because every thought is subject to error.

All our thoughts, feelings, actions, values, expectations, beliefs, convictions, attitudes habits, physical skills and limitations, and past life experiences, as well as the environments in which we live – all of these provide opportunities and simultaneously impose obstacles to our development. This week we will explore how each of these is both an obstacle and an opportunity. Today we focus on thoughts, emotions and actions.

Each of the items explored this week illustrates the principle of creative harmony. Thoughts, feelings and the rest can penetrate deep into our souls, bringing a creative strength with them; but if they are not in harmony with reality or with desired ends, creativity can turn to destruction, as love can turn to hate. As we will see in the section on love, the principle is the same. Love is a creative harmony with the loved one(s) but if the harmonic element disappears (as in jealousy) while the passion (creative element) remains, love can be transformed into hate. Similarly, powerful leaders have acted in the service of evil. So while we value assertiveness and strength, ethics, religion and spirituality have a content (the harmonic element), which we cannot afford to ignore.

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

For many years, Hugo’s Valjean was a slave to his own anger.

Anger may be both foolish and absurd; one can be irritated wrongfully; one is exasperated only when there is some show of right on one's side at bottom. Jean Valjean felt himself exasperated.  And besides, human society had done him nothing but harm; he had never seen anything of it save that angry face which it calls Justice, and which it shows to those whom it strikes. Men had only touched him to bruise him. Every contact with them had been a blow. Never, since his infancy, since the days of his mother, of his sister, had he ever encountered a friendly word and a kindly glance. From suffering to suffering, he had gradually arrived at the conviction that life is a war; and that in this war he was the conquered. He had no other weapon than his hate. He resolved to whet it in the galleys and to bear it away with him when he departed. [Victor Hugo, Les Misérables (1862), Volume I – Fantine; Book Second – The Fall, Chapter VII, “The Interior of Despsir”.]

A few paragraphs later, Hugo ruminates on this sad state of Valjean’s Being.

Was this state of his soul, which we have attempted to analyze, as perfectly clear to Jean Valjean as we have tried to render it for those who read us? Did Jean Valjean distinctly perceive, after their formation, and had he seen distinctly during the process of their formation, all the elements of which his moral misery was composed? Had this rough and unlettered man gathered a perfectly clear perception of the succession of ideas through which he had, by degrees, mounted and descended to the lugubrious aspects which had, for so many years, formed the inner horizon of his spirit? Was he conscious of all that passed within him, and of all that was working there? That is something which we do not presume to state; it is something which we do not even believe. There was too much ignorance in Jean Valjean, even after his misfortune, to prevent much vagueness from still lingering there. At times he did not rightly know himself what he felt. Jean Valjean was in the shadows; he suffered in the shadows; he hated in the shadows; one might have said that he hated in advance of himself. He dwelt habitually in this shadow, feeling his way like a blind man and a dreamer. Only, at intervals, there suddenly came to him, from without and from within, an access of wrath, a surcharge of suffering, a livid and rapid flash which illuminated his whole soul, and caused to appear abruptly all around him, in front, behind, amid the gleams of a frightful light, the hideous precipices and the sombre perspective of his destiny. [Ibid.]

At the end of the chapter, Hugo summarizes:

To sum up, in conclusion, that which can be summed up and translated into positive results in all that we have just pointed out, we will confine ourselves to the statement that, in the course of nineteen years, Jean Valjean, the inoffensive tree-pruner of Faverolles, the formidable convict of Toulon, had become capable, thanks to the manner in which the galleys had moulded him, of two sorts of evil action: firstly, of evil action which was rapid, unpremeditated, dashing, entirely instinctive, in the nature of reprisals for the evil which he had undergone; secondly, of evil action which was serious, grave, consciously argued out and premeditated, with the false ideas which such a misfortune can furnish. His deliberate deeds passed through three successive phases, which natures of a certain stamp can alone traverse,--reasoning, will, perseverance. He had for moving causes his habitual wrath, bitterness of soul, a profound sense of indignities suffered, the reaction even against the good, the innocent, and the just, if there are any such. The point of departure, like the point of arrival, for all his thoughts, was hatred of human law; that hatred which, if it be not arrested in its development by some providential incident, becomes, within a given time, the hatred of society, then the hatred of the human race, then the hatred of creation, and which manifests itself by a vague, incessant, and brutal desire to do harm to some living being, no matter whom. It will be perceived that it was not without reason that Jean Valjean's passport described him as _a very dangerous man_.  From year to year this soul had dried away slowly, but with fatal sureness. When the heart is dry, the eye is dry. On his departure from the galleys it had been nineteen years since he had shed a tear. [Ibid.]

Fictional works focusing on emotion:

Poetry

Speaking of contraries, see how the brook / In that white wave runs counter to itself . . . . / It is this backward motion toward the source, / Against the stream, that most we see ourselves in, / The tribute of the current to the source, / It is from this in nature we are from, / It is most us.

[from Robert Frost, “West-Running Brook”]

 

BEING:

THINKING:

FEELING:

 

ACTING:

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Three operas on the double-edged sword called desire:

Other compositions:

Albums:

Music: songs and other short pieces

Visual Arts

Film and Stage

This week's focus is on obstacles and opportunities in ethical development and personal growth, making the point that a thought, feeling, action, value, etc., both offers an opportunity and poses an obstacle. The films of Wong Kar-wai, at first glance martial arts films, make this point. As film critic Manohla Dargis wrote of “The Grandmaster”: the film is “more an exploration of opposing forces like loyalty and love, horizontal and vertical, and the geometry of bodies moving through space and time.”

The domains of Being - thought, emotion and action - expressed in film:

Thought:

Emotion:

Action:

This Is Our Story

A religion of values and Ethics, driven by love and compassion, informed by science and reason.

PART ONE: OUR STORY

First ingredient: Distinctions. What is the core and essence of being human? What is contentment, or kindliness, or Love? What is gentleness, or service, or enthusiasm, or courage? If you follow the links, you see at a glance what these concepts mean.

PART TWO: ANALYSIS

This site would be incomplete without an analytical framework. After you have digested a few of the examples, feel free to explore the ideas behind the model. I would be remiss if I did not give credit to my inspiration for this work: the Human Faith Project of Calvin Chatlos, M.D. His demonstration of a model for Human Faith began my exploration of this subject matter.

A RELIGION OF VALUES

A baby first begins to learn about the world by experiencing it. A room may be warm or cool. The baby learns that distinction. As a toddler, the child may strike her head with a rag doll, and see that it is soft; then strike her head with a wooden block, and see that it is hard. Love is a distinction: she loves me, or she doesn’t love me. This is true of every human value:

justice, humility, wisdom, courage . . . every single one of them.

This site is dedicated to exploring those distinctions. It is based on a model of values that you can read about on the “About” page. However, the best way to learn about what is in here is the same as the baby’s way of learning about the world: open the pages, and see what happens.

ants organic action machines

Octavio Ocampo, Forever Always

Jacek Yerka, House over the Waterfall

Norman Rockwell, Carefree Days Ahead

WHAT YOU WILL SEE HERE

When you open tiostest.wpengine.com, you will see a human value identified at the top of the page. The value changes daily. These values are designed to follow the seasons of the year.

You will also see an overview of the value, or subject for the day, and then two columns of materials.

The left-side column presents true narratives, which include biographies, memoirs, histories, documentary films and the like; and also technical and analytical writings.

The right-side columns presents the work of the human imagination: fictional novels and stories, music, visual art, poetry and fictional film.

Each entry is presented to help identify the value. Open some of the links and experience our human story, again. It belongs to us all, and each of us is a part of it.

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