Value for Wednesday of Week 30 in the season of Ripening

Being Present

We find comfort and reassurance in the presence of those who love us.

  • In our darkest moments, we don’t need solutions or advice. What we yearn for is simply human connection—a quiet presence, a gentle touch. These small gestures are the anchors that hold us steady when life feels like too much. [attributed to Ernest Hemingway]
  • To us, family means putting your arms around each other and being there. [Barbara Bush]
  • “Stand By You” is about sticking by the person you love not only when things are easy, but being there for them during trials and letting them know they aren’t alone. [Rachel Platten]

Sometimes the most caring thing we can do for someone is to be present in a time of need. The simple act of human contact and what it represents is all we can do, and enough.

Real

True Narratives

Technical and Analytical Readings

Photographs

Documentary and Educational Films

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

Novels:

Poetry

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Paul Robesonwas a famous African-American athlete, singer, actor, and advocate for the civil rights of people around the world. He rose to prominence in a time when segregation was legal in the United States, and Black people were being lynched by racist mobs, especially in the South.”. During the McCarthy era, he famously resisted inquiries from the so-called House Un-American Activities Committee. He once said: “Through my singing and acting and speaking, I want to make freedom ring. Maybe I can touch people’s hearts better than I can their minds, with the common struggle of the common man.” He was the main subject of a documentary film called “Here I Stand”, which was also the title of his autobiography; and of books by Martin Duberman, and Joseph Dorinson & William Pencak, eds. His playlists are extensive. 

Miriam Makeba stood in solidarity with her fellow South African artists during Apartheid. “Through the lens of pan-African solidarity, the print dresses of her performances become political . . .” “Her huge repertory didn’t feature strident protest songs but in love songs and lullabies, party songs and calls for unity there was an indomitable will to survive: a joyful tenacity that could translate as both deep cultural memory and immediate defiance.” She said: “People have accused me of being a racist, but I am just a person for justice and humanity. People say I sing politics, but what I sing is not politics, it is the truth. I'm going to go on singing, telling the truth.” Here she is live in 1966, and in 2006. She left an impressive set of playlists. 

Edward Elgar, Violin Sonata in E Minor, Op. 82 (1918) (approx. 25-29’) (list of recorded performances): Elgar described the sonata: “The first movement is bold and vigorous, then a fantastic, curious movement with a very expressive middle section; a melody for the violin they say it is as good or better than anything I have done in the expressive way … the last movement is very broad and soothing, like the last movement of the Second Symphony.” Elgar’s friend Marie had just died. A reviewer analyzes the conclusion of the sonata: “After one last outburst during the development the music gives the impression of settling down for a peaceful end. It is here that Elgar breaks off from the themes of the movement to quote a more impassioned version of the central theme from the Romance, in memory of his friend Marie. The coda emerges peacefully before gathering both strength and warmth for one last outburst of emotion with the firm affirmation of the E major tonality ending things on a more hopeful note.” It is as though he was standing by a dear friend. Top recorded performances are by Sammons & Murdoch in 1935, Rostal & Horsley in 1954, Kennedy & Pettinger in 1984, McAslan & Blakely in 1985, Vengerov & Chachamov in 1995, Little & Roscoe in 1999 ***, Lamsma & Miura in 2005, Crow & Stewart in 2006, van Keulen & Brautigam in 2007, Bezrodny & Ilja in 2007, Siem & Korobeinikov in 2007, Marshall-Luck & Rickard in 2012, Ehnes & Armstrong in 2016, Waley-Cohen & Watkins in 2017, and Capuçon & Hough in 2021. 

Other compositions:

Albums:

Music: songs and other short pieces

Visual Arts

Film and Stage

From the dark side:

This Is Our Story

A religion of values and Ethics, driven by love and compassion, informed by science and reason.

PART ONE: OUR STORY

First ingredient: Distinctions. What is the core and essence of being human? What is contentment, or kindliness, or Love? What is gentleness, or service, or enthusiasm, or courage? If you follow the links, you see at a glance what these concepts mean.

PART TWO: ANALYSIS

This site would be incomplete without an analytical framework. After you have digested a few of the examples, feel free to explore the ideas behind the model. I would be remiss if I did not give credit to my inspiration for this work: the Human Faith Project of Calvin Chatlos, M.D. His demonstration of a model for Human Faith began my exploration of this subject matter.

A RELIGION OF VALUES

A baby first begins to learn about the world by experiencing it. A room may be warm or cool. The baby learns that distinction. As a toddler, the child may strike her head with a rag doll, and see that it is soft; then strike her head with a wooden block, and see that it is hard. Love is a distinction: she loves me, or she doesn’t love me. This is true of every human value:

justice, humility, wisdom, courage . . . every single one of them.

This site is dedicated to exploring those distinctions. It is based on a model of values that you can read about on the “About” page. However, the best way to learn about what is in here is the same as the baby’s way of learning about the world: open the pages, and see what happens.

ants organic action machines

Octavio Ocampo, Forever Always

Jacek Yerka, House over the Waterfall

Norman Rockwell, Carefree Days Ahead

WHAT YOU WILL SEE HERE

When you open tiostest.wpengine.com, you will see a human value identified at the top of the page. The value changes daily. These values are designed to follow the seasons of the year.

You will also see an overview of the value, or subject for the day, and then two columns of materials.

The left-side column presents true narratives, which include biographies, memoirs, histories, documentary films and the like; and also technical and analytical writings.

The right-side columns presents the work of the human imagination: fictional novels and stories, music, visual art, poetry and fictional film.

Each entry is presented to help identify the value. Open some of the links and experience our human story, again. It belongs to us all, and each of us is a part of it.

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