Value for Sunday of Week 35 in the season of Interlude

Restoring the Self

Everyone needs time to refresh.

  • One day a week I seek to rest from earthly toil and sorrow. Revitalized, I find the strength to battle new tomorrows. [attributed to Richelle E. Goodrich]
  • We are human beings, you need to mentally switch off now and again to refresh your body and mind. [Luke Campbell]
  • When you are creating to the magnitude that I try to create, your brain is like a computer, and you need to refresh. [attributed to Missy Elliott]

Our mental and emotional well-being demands that we take time occasionally to restore ourselves: to calm down, to reflect and to rest. Personal restoration is strongly linked to recovery. Means of self-restoration include interacting with nature (see also here), and conservation of personal resources. However: “Dense wooded areas may evoke fear and stress and require directed attention to avoid getting lost or tripping over.After natural disasters, being safe at home is restorative.

Everyone sleeps. We can either lay down and sleep, or try to stay awake, in which case sleep will come. “Sleep is a biological necessity, and insufficient sleep and untreated sleep disorders are detrimental for health, well-being, and public safety.” “Sleep is an essential function that allows your body and mind to recharge, leaving you refreshed and alert when you wake up. Healthy sleep also helps the body remain healthy and stave off diseases. Without enough sleep, the brain cannot function properly, impairing your abilities to concentrate, think clearly, and process memories.Sleeping is so essential that researchers have created academic journals called Sleep, Journal of Sleep Research, Sleep Health, Sleep Medicine, Sleep Epidemiology, Sleep Medicine Reviews, and Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine.

Sleep deprivation is unhealthy. “. . . sleep deprivation studies confirm the relationship between inadequate sleep and a wide range of disorders, such as hypertension, obesity and type-2 diabetes, cardiovascular disease, impaired immune functioning, and more.” “. . . much of Western society’s apathy towards sleep can be accounted for by science’s failure to explain the evolutionary purpose of sleep or why we need it. This in turn has led to a scenario in which neglecting sleep has become the norm, to the point that the WHO has declared that there is a sleep deficiency epidemic in industrialized countries.

Among the benefits of adequate sleeping are:

Real

True Narratives

Technical and Analytical Readings

Photographs

Documentary and Educational Films

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

Novels:

Poetry

Whose woods these are I think I know.
His house is in the village, though; 
He will not see me stopping here
To watch his woods fill up with snow.

My little horse must think it queer
To stop without a farmhouse near
Between the woods and frozen lake
The darkest evening of the year.

He gives his harness bells a shake
To ask if there is some mistake.
The only other sound's the sweep
Of easy wind and downy flake.

The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.

[Robert Frost, “Stopping By Woods on a Snowy Evening”.]

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Tommy Dorsey led a big band but his lead trombone, coupled with his soothing arrangements, infused his music with a sense of restfulness. “Dorsey perfected a ballad style on the trombone, noted for seamless legato phrases and purity of tone.” “His remarkably melodic trombone playing was the signature sound of his orchestra, but he successfully straddled the hot and sweet styles of swing with a mix of ballads and novelty songs.” “He was the ‘Sentimental Gentleman of Swing,’ a trombonist with perfect breath control, a pretty sound, and a melodic swinging style.” He was a main subject of a 1947 film, “The Fabulous Dorseys”, along with his brother Jimmy, a clarinetist. Here they are on the popular TV show “What’s My Line?” in 1955. Here is a link to Tommy Dorsey’s playlists.

Other artists:

Compositions:

Albums:

Here is a video presenting eight hours of simple relaxing music, unmarred by excessive New Age gimmickry (OK, there is that chirping bird and the bell). This is music to turn off your mind by. Don’t expect much forward movement, just relax.

Music: songs and other short pieces

Visual Arts

Film and Stage

This Is Our Story

A religion of values and Ethics, driven by love and compassion, informed by science and reason.

PART ONE: OUR STORY

First ingredient: Distinctions. What is the core and essence of being human? What is contentment, or kindliness, or Love? What is gentleness, or service, or enthusiasm, or courage? If you follow the links, you see at a glance what these concepts mean.

PART TWO: ANALYSIS

This site would be incomplete without an analytical framework. After you have digested a few of the examples, feel free to explore the ideas behind the model. I would be remiss if I did not give credit to my inspiration for this work: the Human Faith Project of Calvin Chatlos, M.D. His demonstration of a model for Human Faith began my exploration of this subject matter.

A RELIGION OF VALUES

A baby first begins to learn about the world by experiencing it. A room may be warm or cool. The baby learns that distinction. As a toddler, the child may strike her head with a rag doll, and see that it is soft; then strike her head with a wooden block, and see that it is hard. Love is a distinction: she loves me, or she doesn’t love me. This is true of every human value:

justice, humility, wisdom, courage . . . every single one of them.

This site is dedicated to exploring those distinctions. It is based on a model of values that you can read about on the “About” page. However, the best way to learn about what is in here is the same as the baby’s way of learning about the world: open the pages, and see what happens.

ants organic action machines

Octavio Ocampo, Forever Always

Jacek Yerka, House over the Waterfall

Norman Rockwell, Carefree Days Ahead

WHAT YOU WILL SEE HERE

When you open tiostest.wpengine.com, you will see a human value identified at the top of the page. The value changes daily. These values are designed to follow the seasons of the year.

You will also see an overview of the value, or subject for the day, and then two columns of materials.

The left-side column presents true narratives, which include biographies, memoirs, histories, documentary films and the like; and also technical and analytical writings.

The right-side columns presents the work of the human imagination: fictional novels and stories, music, visual art, poetry and fictional film.

Each entry is presented to help identify the value. Open some of the links and experience our human story, again. It belongs to us all, and each of us is a part of it.

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