Value for Saturday of Week 24 in the season of Ripening

Eliciting the Best

Eliciting the best in ourselves and others expands on the Golden Rule.

  • Act So As to Elicit the Best In Others, and Thereby In Thy Self. [Felix Adler, An Ethical Philosophy of Life, Book III, Chapter VII.]

Felix Adler, founder of Ethical Culture, identified eliciting the best in others as the supreme ethical rule. It is a variation on the  Golden Rule, in that it looks explicitly at the ways in which our behavior can influence the thoughts, feelings and actions of others. In so doing, it treats the quality and character of our relationships with others more actively: we are to elicit the best, thereby honoring people instead of merely respecting them.

Real

True Narratives

Technical and Analytical Readings

Photographs

Documentary and Educational Films

Imaginary

Fictional Narratives

Monseigneur Welcome had what the people term a "fine head," but so amiable was he that they forgot that it was fine.  When he conversed with that infantile gayety which was one of his charms, and of which we have already spoken, people felt at their ease with him, and joy seemed to radiate from his whole person. His fresh and ruddy complexion, his very white teeth, all of which he had preserved, and which were displayed by his smile, gave him that open and easy air which cause the remark to be made of a man, "He's a good fellow"; and of an old man, "He is a fine man." That, it will be recalled, was the effect which he produced upon Napoleon. On the first encounter, and to one who saw him for the first time, he was nothing, in fact, but a fine man. But if one remained near him for a few hours, and beheld him in the least degree pensive, the fine man became gradually transfigured, and took on some imposing quality, I know not what; his broad and serious brow, rendered august by his white locks, became august also by virtue of meditation; majesty radiated from his goodness, though his goodness ceased not to be radiant; one experienced something of the emotion which one would feel on beholding a smiling angel slowly unfold his wings, without ceasing to smile. Respect, an unutterable respect, penetrated you by degrees and mounted to your heart, and one felt that one had before him one of those strong, thoroughly tried, and indulgent souls where thought is so grand that it can no longer be anything but gentle. [Victor Hugo, Les Misérables (1862), Volume I – Fantine; Book First – A Just Man, Chapter XIII, “What he believed”.]

Poetry

Music: Composers, artists, and major works

Many composers served as models through their work, thereby eliciting the best in other composers. In composing his piano works, Arthur Foote drew heavily on Chopin.

Jazz albums and gigs:

Eddie “Lockjaw” Davis and Johnny Griffin were two saxophonists who brought out the best in each other, in their quintet, as reflected on their albums:

Music: songs and other short pieces

Visual Arts

Film and Stage

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