Without desire, we would care about nothing. All values systems rely on valuers, and our preferences. Desires/preferences are to values as cells are to organisms.
Pan came out of the woods one day,– / His skin and his hair and his eyes were gray, / The gray of the moss of walls were they,– / And stood in the sun and looked his fill / At wooded valley and wooded hill.
He stood in the zephyr, pipes in hand, / On a height of naked pasture land; / In all the country he did command / He saw no smoke and he saw no roof. / That was well! and he stamped a hoof.
His heart knew peace, for none came here / To this lean feeding save once a year / Someone to salt the half-wild steer, / Or homespun children with clicking pails / Who see so little they tell no tales.
He tossed his pipes, too hard to teach / A new-world song, far out of reach, / For sylvan sign that the blue jay’s screech / And the whimper of hawks beside the sun / Were music enough for him, for one.
Times were changed from what they were: / Such pipes kept less of power to stir / The fruited bough of the juniper / And the fragile bluets clustered there / Than the merest aimless breath of air.
They were pipes of pagan mirth, / And the world had found new terms of worth. / He laid him down on the sun-burned earth / And raveled a flower and looked away– / Play? Play?–What should he play?
[Robert Frost, “Pan With Us”]
Without our preferences – our desires – there is no such a thing as morality, ethics or religion. Set in ideas about good and evil, right and wrong, morality implies a set of preferences, such as life over death, as in “Thou shalt not kill.” Similarly, ethics implies an evaluation of conduct that either serves or disserves desires. The entire field of religion is a set of narratives and prescriptions for everything desired, from the desire for rain to the desire for a sense of peace. Messy though they are, our preferences are inescapable. They form a necessary bridge into moral, ethical, religious and spiritual development.
Our preferences have their foundations in our character as human beings. The organic brain is to ethics as chemistry is to biology: its essential foundation.
Real
True Narratives
Technical and Analytical Readings
- Sam Harris, The Moral Landscape (Free Press, 2010).
- Ogi Ogus and Sai Gaddam, A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World’s Largest Experiment Reveals About Human Desire (Dutton, 2011): “The concentrated essence of this curious book is contained in its 11th chapter, which attempts to explain what the ‘Mona Lisa’ has in common with Chicken McNuggets, vampire novels and the concluding scene of most pornographic videos. Each of these works of human creativity . . . exploits perceptual trickery to arouse and gratify our desires.”
- Paul Bloom, Just Babies: The Origins of Good and Evil (Crown Publishers, 2013): “ . . . psychologist Paul Bloom draws from his research at the Yale Infant Cognition Center to argue that ‘certain moral foundations are not acquired through learning. . . . They are instead the products of biological evolution.’”
- Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics (350 B.C.E.): a new translation “addresses modern well-being”.
Photographs
Documentary and Educational Films
Imaginary
Fictional Narratives
Victor Hugo describes how romantic “love” emerges from desire:
Cosette in her shadow, like Marius in his, was all ready to take fire. Destiny, with its mysterious and fatal patience, slowly drew together these two beings, all charged and all languishing with the stormy electricity of passion, these two souls which were laden with love as two clouds are laden with lightning, and which were bound to overflow and mingle in a look like the clouds in a flash of fire. [Victor Hugo, Les Miserables (1862), Volume IV – Saint-Denis; Book Third – The House in the Rue Plumet, Chapter VI, The Battle Begun.]
In J.K. Rowling’s Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone (Scholastic Press, 1997), Harry discovers a mysterious mirror in a back corridor. On it are letters that at first appear unintelligible, though they are arranged and separated like words. When Harry realizes that, read backward, they say "I show not your face but your heart's desire," he gains the inspiration and self-knowledge he needs to triumph. The reversed letters are a metaphor for unawareness of our deepest longings. Harry's discovery of their meaning is a metaphor for our discovery of meaning in any phase or aspect of life.
Barry Hannah “could at gunpoint write the life story of a telephone pole”. He lived an inner life large. His fictional works fairly drip with unsentimental longing.
- Barry Hannah, Long, Last Happy: New and Collected Stories (Grove Press, 2010): “Hannah’s lines invigorate and intoxicate, his language delivering us into an American version of what Rilke called 'a more powerful reality — rising and circling, poised but wild.'”
- Barry Hannah, Geronimo Rex: A Novel (Viking, 1972), “is vulgar, sexual, ribald and wildly comic.”
- Barry Hannah, Airships: A Novel (Knopf, 1978).
- Barry Hannah, Bats Out of Hell: A Novel (Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 1993): “. . . bent Puritans, their voices soggy with mortality, spin true lies and fish for their lives in the deep waters of their histories. Reading these stories, we long to be better folks again.”
- Barry Hannah, Ray: A Novel (Knopf, 1980), is “. . . the funniest, weirdest, soul-happiest work of fiction . . .”
- Barry Hannah, Boomerang: A Novel (1989).
- Barry Hannah, High Lonesome: A Novel (Atlantic Monthly Press, 1996)
Other works:
- Marina Warner, Stranger Magic: Charmed States and the Arabian Nights (The Belknap Press/Harvard University Press, 2012): an interpretation of The Arabian Nights “as an overgrown garden of delights and hazards of desire.”
- Rebecca Newberger Goldstein, 36 Arguments for the Existence of God: A Work of Fiction (Pantheon Books, 2010): “. . . philosophers and scholars may construct as many proofs or disproofs of divinity as they like. But to people of faith such questions remain as inarguable as the persistence of kugel.”
- Christos Ikonomou, Good Will Come from the Sea: A Novella (Archipelago Books, 2019): “A novella consisting of four connected stories, the first installment of a projected trilogy, “Good Will Come From the Sea” is set on an imaginary island in the Aegean that serves as a proxy for Greece — a place to which displaced Athenians are forced by unemployment and other economic necessities to flee and start their lives again.”
- Jean-Philippe Blondel, Exposed; A Novel (New Vessel Press, 2019): “The increasingly intense relationship between older muse and younger artist takes a turn, however, when Alexandre hesitantly asks that for the final portrait Louis pose in the nude. ‘Exposed’ leaves open to the last minute whether that concluding canvas will be more Lucian Freud or David Hockney, and who, exactly, is undressing whom. ”
- Amanda Popkey, Topics of Conversation: A Novel (Knopf, 2020): “How Much Power Do Women Want?”
- Emily St. John Mandel, Sea of Tranquility: A Novel (Knopf, 2022): a “feeling of something lovely glimpsed and lost is everywhere in these pages — which makes sense considering that the exiles, grieving friends, lonely authors and lonelier time travelers Mandel sets in motion . . . are all trying, with varying degrees of success, to catch hold of what keeps eluding them.”
- K-Ming Chang, Gods of Want: Stories (One World, 2022): “Metabolizing the World Into Something Wild and Achingly Alive - The stories in K-Ming Chang’s ‘Gods of Want’ are obsessed with the hungers and precarities of emigration and queer love.”
Novels, from the dark side:
- Mariana Enriquez, Our Share of Night: A Novel (Hogarth, 2023) “explores the founding families of the Cult of the Shadow, also known as the Order, an international secret society of wealthy occultists seeking to preserve consciousness after death. The hunt for immortality leads them to do the unthinkable.”
Poetry
Other poems:
- Walt Whitman, “I Am He That Aches with Love”
- Pablo Neruda, Sonnet XCV
- John Keats, “Fill for Me a Brimming Bowl”
- John Keats, “On a Dream”
- Theodore Roethke, “The Long Waters”
- W.B. Yeats, “The Song of Wandering Aengus”
Books of poems:
- Tommy Pico, Feed (Tin House Books, 2020): “A Book-Length Meditation on Modern Appetites”
Music: Composers, artists, and major works
Asmik Grigorian is a Lithuanian soprano whose singing displays a mix of “steel and satin”, according to the Gramophone magazine article awarding her first album, “Dissonance” (46’), the 2022 award for singing album of the year. Her renditions of Puccini’s aria “O mio babbino caro” (lyrics), from the opera Gianni Schicchi, and Tchaikovsky’s aria, “Song to the Moon” (lyrics), from the opera Rusalka, capture the longing the composers must have intended. Practically anything she sings – operatic arias, in concert - comes alive with desire and meaning. No doubt, her playlists will continue to expand.
Egyptian singer Oum Kolthoum (Umm Kulthum) is said to be the one thing on which all Egyptians agree. Hers was a voice of barely restrained desire. “Imagine a singer with the virtuosity of Joan Sutherland or Ella Fitzgerald, the public persona of Eleanor Roosevelt and the audience of Elvis and you have Umm Kulthum, the most accomplished singer of her century in the Arab world”. “Kalthum's voice was expressive--some critics say melodramatic--and her performances would alternately hold her audiences in thrall and bring them to emotional paroxysms. . . she appeared to perform as if in a trance.” “. . . she sang songs for which she would be remembered for the rest of the century, especially colloquial love songs echoing the language and music of working-class people.” She left an impressive set of releases, a long playlist, including the songs on this compilation. Her most popular songs include Hagartak (I Left You) (59’), Al Atlal (The Ruins) (60’), Siret el Hob (Talk of Love) (58’), Enta Omri (You Are My Life) (79’), Ba’eed Annak (Far from You) (81’), and Enta el Hob (Take My Life) (70’).
Alexander Zemlinsky styled his Lyrische Symphonie (Lyric Symphony) for soprano, baritone and orchestra, Op. 18 (1923) (approx. 40-45’), after Mahler’s Das Lied von der Erde. The lyrics are taken from Rabindranath Tagore’s poems, “The Gardener” (1915). “The poems loosely trace a love affair from initial yearnings to final disappointment . . .” “The baritone and soprano alternate with one another over the course of the seven movements in what is not so much a narrative as an exploration of various stages of love. The first two songs present views of yearning, the next two its achievement, and the final three love’s end. . . . the Lyric Symphony is a Tristanesque exploration of longing and desire.” Best performances are by Marc & Hagegård (Chailly) in 1994, Isokosky & Skavhus (Conlon) in 2001; Karlson & Grundheber (Beaumont) in 2002; and Goerne & Schäfer (Eschenbech) in 2005.
Edvard Grieg, Haugtussa (Maid of the Hill Spirits), Op. 67 (1895) (approx. 25-30’) (lyrics), based on a book of Poems by Arne Gorberg, “is a late work that contains some of the composer’s best songs and exemplifies his synthesis of nineteenth century art music style with Norwegian folk-music idioms.” The songs are about longing and passion in a simple country setting. Top performances are by Flagstad & McArthur in 1940, von Otter & Forsberg in 1992, Ólafsdóttir & Ólafsson in 2006, Kielland & Mortensen in 2013, and Booth & Glynn in 2010.
In emotional appeal, Natalia Lafourcade is a contemporary Mexican version of Oum Kolthoum, with less dramatic flair. In style, they are worlds apart, Lafourcade offering traditional-length songs, in contrast to Kolthoum’s extended pieces. Natalia’s heartfelt singing conveys “an artful simplicity that transcends the bounds of time”. She has an extensive set of releases and playlists since 2009.
Musically, Carlo Gesualdo is best known for his six books of madrigals, all of which have been recorded by Delitæ Musicæ under Marco Longhini, and by Les Arts Florissants under Paul Agnew. “Carlo Gesualdo's strength was his ability to combine musically a variety of unconventional strategies into the service of a deeply felt and psychologically effective whole.” Personally, he is best known for his tragic first marriage, ending in his wife’s death. His passion found expression in his music, which is characterized by dissonance, and rejection of musical conventions of his time.
- First Book of Madrigals (1594) (approx. 56-60’)
- Second Book of Madrigals (1595) (approx. 55-60’)
- Third Book of Madrigals (1595) (approx. 65-70’)
- Fourth Book of Madrigals (1596) (approx. 65-70’)
- Fifth Book of Madrigals (1611) (approx. 55-60’)
- Sixth Book of Madrigals (1611) (approx. 90’)
Other works:
- Johannes Brahms, Alto Rhapsody, Op. 53 (1869) (approx. 14-16’) (lyrics): “This text is a fragment from a longer poem and describes a wandering misanthrope for whom the narrator offers a prayer that his heart will be moved (the prayer marked by the entry of the chorus). Brahms apparently identified with this protagonist, and the work is often associated with the marriage of Julie Schumann (daughter of Robert and Clara) with whom Brahms had been infatuated.”
- Raga Patdip (Patdeep) is a Hindustani classical raag performed at dusk, or early evening. It “reflects eagerness implicit intrigue and separation pangs.” “Since my love left, I have lost my senses . . .” Performances are by Hariprasad Chaurasia, Nikhil Banerjee, Abhishek Borkar, Shri Anirudh Aithal, and Bhimsen Joshi.
- Berenguer de Palol, consort works: this 12th-century composer wrote about the longing for love and joy.
- Though he composed entirely during the classical era, Hyacinthe Jadin captured the unashamed longing of Romanticism in his fortepiano sonatas.
- Franz Liszt, Orpheus, S. 98 (Poème symphonique No. 4) (1854) (approx. 10-11’): “. . . the composer is less concerned with the specifics of the Classical legend of Orpheus and his attempt to rescue his beloved, Euridice, from the underworld than with the notion of civilization prevailing over barbarism.”
- Gabriel Fauré, Violin Sonata No. 1 in A Major, Op. 13 (1876) (approx. 24-27’), is a pinnacle of nineteenth-century Romanticism.
- Nikolai Rimsky-Korsakov, May Night (1879) (approx. 123-153’) is an opera full of dreams of romantic love, and a happy future. “The dramatic structure is somewhat haphazard and the narrative negligible, but the opera’s unpretentious humour and warm rusticity — lots of drunken escapades, mistaken identities, and supernatural visitations — are as engaging as its cantabile folk-derived melodies and colourfully orchestrated score.”
- Kaija Saariaho, L'Amour de loin (Love from Afar) (2000) (approx. 140’), “is a work about an emotional and spiritual journey—about the eternal themes of love and death embodied in a medieval troubadour. He is a character tired of the life of a Lothario and longing for a real love, but who dies at the moment he finally attains his desire.”
- Carl Orff, Der Mond (The Moon) (1938) (145-155’): the characters steal the moon, because their country does not have one.
- John Adams, The Dharma at Big Sur (2003) (approx. 14’)
- Granville Bantock, Sappho: Nine Fragments for Contralto (1906): “The 'fragments' are all that remain of the work of the Greek poetess Sappho who lived c700BC, and Bantock has given her erotic and beautiful poetry a luscious late-romantic score for a vast orchestra.” Sappho’s “poetry was said to be inspired, passionate and also erotic.”
- Leonard Bernstein, Trouble in Tahiti (1952) (approx. 45’): “In 1950s suburbia, Sam and Dinah appear to have the perfect life in their little white house. But their growing detachment exposes a mutual feeling that they are trapped in a life that has turned into a lie. Sam escapes to the hyper-masculine, win-or-lose world of work and the gym, while Dinah loses herself in the movies, where the hit picture of the day is the ominously-titled Trouble in Tahiti.”
- Bernard van Dieren, Symphony No. 1, “Chinese Symphony”, Op. 6 (1914) (approx. 36’), “was based on German translations of ancient Chinese poetry.”
- Raga Bihag is a Hindustani classical raag for late evening. “In classical music . . . it is regarded as a raga of Shringara rasa (romantic sentiment). The mood of the raga is celebratory as well as romantic, making it a common raga sung especially on occasions of marriage.” Linked performances are by Nikhil Banerjee in 1971, Amir Khan in 1974, Rashid Khan and Ravi Shankar in 2001.
- Cyril Scott, Five Poems (1912) (approx. 21’): “Human yearning and cosmic freedom meld in a panoramic embrace . . .”
Albums:
- Kate Reid, “The Heart Already Knows” (2018) (47’)
- The Crossing, “Moonstrung Air”: choral and vocal works of Gregory W. Brown (2015) (65’)
- Aphrodite’s Child, “666” (1971) (68’), is named after the Greek goddess of sexual love and beauty.
- I Fagiolini, “Draw On Sweet Night” (2022) (76’), a collection of choral pieces by John Willbye
- Janice Burns & Jon Doran, “No More the Green Hills” (2022) (40’), is an album of longing and “lost love and the accompanying loneliness, sometimes despair.”
From the dark side: Richard Wagner, Götterdämmerung (Twilight of the Gods), WD 86 (1848) (approx. 250-290) (libretto): Wagner intended this opera as an allegory for the end of the (old) world, prefacing a new one. Unfortunately, Wager’s worldview was so one-dimensional that taking the opera seriously as a story is nearly impossible, though Wagner by all accounts was entirely serious. This opera is better seen as an allegory for the dark side of desire, in keeping with Robert Frost’s poem “Fire and Ice”: “Some say the world will end in fire / Some say in ice. / From what I’ve tasted of desire / I hold with those who favor fire.” The penultimate scene in the opera is an immolation scene, which predicates the restoration of the world to its original state. Top audio performances were conducted by Krauss in 1953, Furtwängler in 1953, Keilberth in 1955, Knappertsbusch in 1958, Elder in 2010, and Jankowski in 2013. Here are links to video-recorded performances conducted by Mehta and Fischer).
Music: songs and other short pieces
- Asmik Grigorian “Song to the Moon” (lyrics) from Antonín Dvořák’ opera Rusalka
- Asmik Grigorian, “O Mio Babbino Caro” (lyrics), from the opera Giacomo Puccini’s opera Gianni Schicchi
- Maria McCool, “Ar Éirinn Ní Neosfainn Cé Hí” (lyrics); here sung by Liam Clancy
- Franz Schubert (composer), “La Pastorella al Prato” (The Shepherdess in the Meadow), D. 513 (lyrics): a young woman dreams that her love may one day be hers.
- U2, “I Still Haven’t Found What I’m Looking For” (lyrics)
- Paul Simon, “How the Heart Approaches What It Yearns” (lyrics)
- Paul Simon, “Proof of Love” (lyrics)
- Ustad Saami, “Longing” (lyrics)
- Franz Schubert (composer), “Sehnschucht” (Longing), D. 52 (lyrics) (1813)
- Franz Schubert (composer), “Sehnsucht” (Longing), Op. 8, No. 2, D. 516 (1817) (lyrics)
- Franz Schubert (composer), “Sehnsucht” (Longing), D. 636 (1819) (lyrics)
- Franz Schubert (composer), “Sehnsucht” (Longing), Op. 105, No. 4, D. 879 (1826) (lyrics)
- Franz Joseph Haydn, “O Tuneful Voice”, Hob. XVVI:a42 (lyrics)
Visual Arts
- Salvador Dali, The Birth of Liquid Desires (1932)
- Giuseppe Arcimboldo, Fire (1566)
Film and Stage
- Like Water for Chocolate, a fable about a woman whose mother tried to repress her desire
- Fire: a story of “two beautiful women, one . . . married to a cad, the other to a fool,” who fall in love with each other. To the film-maker Deepa Mehta, the film is about women having choices and so it is but to me the most moving moment in the film is when one of the women tells her husband, whose religion leads him to renounce desire, that she wishes to love and live.
- Black Orpheus, a retelling of Orpheus and Eurydice, in which a man tries to reclaim his murdered lover by following her into hell
- Mademoiselle Chambon, about an intelligent and plain but attractive schoolteacher who is mutually attracted to the father of one of her elementary school students, a carpenter: her violin playing is a metaphor for “a lonely soul adrift, yearning for an elusive inner peace.”
- Claire’s Knee: a man is taken with two teenaged girls